Qs&As

Some peeps did send in some mail asking some questions. Am not perfect at this thing but i guess God gave me the grace to be able to profer some solution. I hope you find my answers helpful. wish you guys the best. I appreciate your writing in and believing I may have the answers to your questions.

Q1
 I’m Not Attracted to My Wife Anymore:
My wife was hot but no longer. I DO love her, but, I am so turned off by her weight that I cant even climax with her anymore. She DID understand, even before we were married, how weight was a HUGE issue for me. (that I had an obese mother who beat me all the time and that therefore, I detest obese women).  She lovingly understood and said in the beginning of the marriage “Hon, if I start to gain weight, just be kind and let me know”- and I did, I WAS nice the first few times when she gained 5 lbs, then, another 5, and another, until It was not so nice anymore.

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Okay, now let’s turn to what is possible.  Your wife obviously has serious issues with weight.  It seems like her weight spiralled out of control bit by bit.  You don’t tell me whether she is trying to lose weight, or is upset about being obese, or what.   If she is trying to lose weight, though, I doubt you would have written in, so I will assume she is not.  In that case, I believe that you deserve to be in a relationship where your deal breakers are not broken.  For you, this means having a non-obese partner. DH please be patient with your wife. Call her attention again to this weight thing. Let her know how much it pisses you off and how much it has affected your sex life. Tell her what is obtainable if she goes on this way. Am sure that at the mention of finding plesure outside, she will buckle up. Please work with her. Go to the gym with her and most importantly pray for God to give her the strength to go through it.
 As for you woman is it hat you dont value the relationship enough to lose weight to make him happy? The reason why it’s a bigger deal for men is because they need to look at a naked body (that looks good to them) in order to get turned on. And if they aren’t turned on, then certain “mechanisms” aren’t going to function to the extent needed for decent sex…. or sex period I dont understand why you want to blow up when your hubby likes it slim. You are sending him outside yourself (Me i cant kill myself by myself). My partner loves me plump that dosent mean i should get out of hand. Am a perfect size 12 and plan to remain that way. i get bothered when i add or reduce. Please have this orientation.


Q2
 My Husband snores like a pig all night. I can barely sleep. What do i do?
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LolSo sorry dear am not laughing at your situation just laughing at how you described your darling husbands snore.
First i have to ask you if he was snoring before you guys got married and if your answer is yes then my dear you were okay with it I ask that you continue carrying your cross. But if not maybe its his lying position. When he starts nudge him a bit or wake him to change position if you cant turn him around. It could be that he is damn tired. It could also be that you are feeding him heavily at night. Am trying so hard to profer a solution to this. i hope am doing a nice job at it. Please sister google it. i don laugh tire..... Sorry o!!!!!