Trust is a burden.

So sorry about the long silence.

I was talking to a friend and he says so much trust from his wife is actually a burden on him. And I just thought that its the best thing to do. He said its not as if it stops him from doing the wrong things he wants to do but that after the deed is done, he starts to feel bad and cant even face his wife. He got tired of feeling this way and just thought WTF! Why should he keep doing things he thinks is fun and then start to feel bad afterwards. He'd rather just stop doing them.

Now woman listen this is something we should emulate like seriously. Instead of nagging and bickering each time you think your hubby is up to some mischief just gently remind him of how much you trust him, tell him how much you and the kids love that he is the best father and husband in the world who cant hurt them or do anything thats not worthy. Constantly remind him that you dont doubt his every move. Try to always appeal or speak to his conscience. Smile and help him prepare each time he is going for that boys night out. You know its not everytime the boys hang out that they end up in another ladys hand. Dont choke him please, dont try to be his mama, be his wife. Sometimes chip in that you know he wont be stupid not to think of his family when those excapades men like pops into his head. Do not over flog it. Remember i said just chip in. do not forget to gist him of real life stories where the mans philandering acts destroys a nice family. Let it be a food for thought.